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09/22/08 07:50 PM
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Awww, Gina, I am sorry. You did not start him. You loved him and were trying to help him. He knows that, as do we. Cancer is called 'The Beast' for very good reason. It seems to follow no rules and can change direction at any time. 'She said that he was otherwise a perfectly healthy little boy'......he was that way BECAUSE OF YOU AND YOUR LOVING CARE. Please remember that!
I am sorry tonight brought all your intense pain back. I know it won't take it all away, but go love on Sekwaf, tell him all about his namesake. Remember all the GOOD MEMORIES, relive them, it will help you to heal. Yes, you will cry, but the tears will be rimmed with the pure joy you felt when those memories were created.
You are in my prayers, my friend.
Thank you for sharing that, I know that was not easy.
Timmy, Gidget(RIP), Bandit, Petey(RIP), Phoebe, Jake (RIP) Piper(RIP), Pru(RIP), Paige, Cole, Molly(RIP), Oliver, Wyatt, Roo(RIP), Romeo, Pennie, Mandy(RIP), Madison, Garth, Kikipoo, Stasia, Bella, Petunia(RIP), Helen, Sydney, Kizzy and Sweet Pea's mom, Mary
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Re: Fawkes' Necropsy Report & Histopathy is in...
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09/22/08 08:19 PM
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Gina, you did the best and then some for Fawkes. No one could have known exactly where the cancer was growing. In these cases, most of the therapy is given with hopes that it is targeting the critical areas involved. Please Gina, let go of thinking this. Today was probably the hardest, but now that the results have shown in Fawkes case, it is one of the most difficult cancers to treat. Bless you Gina for loving him, and caring for him the way that you did. God Bless you Fawkes, we all love and miss you.
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Re: Fawkes' Necropsy Report & Histopathy is in...
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09/22/08 08:21 PM
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I just opened the box they gave me so I could transfer his ashes to the silver cremation pendant I bought for him & there's FUR in the box! What were they thinking?????????
And there are like 3 times as many ashes as there are supposed to be - is this even Fawkes?
I'm so upset I can't stop shaking!!!!!!!!
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Re: Fawkes' Necropsy Report & Histopathy is in...
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09/22/08 08:55 PM
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OMG monster now I don't want to open mine! I haven't been able to yet maybe I should keep it that way. There is just no reason for that type of thing to happen. I am sorry you had to see that at all.
cyndiekb I & miss you HALEY My runaways 4/04 Lilo, 5/04 Dash & Angel Sprite Says GO STEALTH!! at AtticWorx
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09/22/08 09:19 PM
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I am so sorry. what are you going to do?
Debra Two sons in the U.S. Army Slaves to: Mikki, Loki & Thor dogs: Morgan & Isabella Bunnies Bob & TMan RIP Wellington, Minnie & Dazzle bunny, Willow July 6 2013, Squirtle 7-24-09, Maggie May 12-14-10 Licensed wildlife rehabilitator - Cottontail Rabbits & Squirrels
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Re: Fawkes' Necropsy Report & Histopathy is in...
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09/22/08 09:34 PM
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Fur? I would call them, that is not right (unless you asked for some of his fur. I took some from my dog myself when he went to the bridge, but that is different.) I am so sorry.
Timmy, Gidget(RIP), Bandit, Petey(RIP), Phoebe, Jake (RIP) Piper(RIP), Pru(RIP), Paige, Cole, Molly(RIP), Oliver, Wyatt, Roo(RIP), Romeo, Pennie, Mandy(RIP), Madison, Garth, Kikipoo, Stasia, Bella, Petunia(RIP), Helen, Sydney, Kizzy and Sweet Pea's mom, Mary
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Re: Fawkes' Necropsy Report & Histopathy is in...
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09/22/08 09:49 PM
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I wish I hadn't opened it - I wouldn't have if I hadn't planned on putting him in the silver pendant. But now I have doubts that this is even Fawkes.
It was supposed to be less than a teaspoon of ash, and its at least a tablespoon, plus the fur. I don't want to call them. what are they going to do, look through the ashes, figure out which ones are really Fawkes' and straighten it out?
This is just horrifying, I haven't stopped bawling since I opened it.
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Re: Fawkes' Necropsy Report & Histopathy is in...
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09/22/08 10:06 PM
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Oh Gina, I am so sorry. Is there someone that can call for you and ask what is normal? I have only had one animal cremated, but there was more ash than what I expected or was told to expect. But if they made a mistake, they need to know so the same thing doesn't happen to someone else going through what you are. I do understand about losing it when you go back into the room, I had that experience recently and didn't realize it would be so hard either. Fawkes's loss will creep up on you sometimes in ways and at times you don't expect. But it does get better and you will see him again. Someone told me recently that it's a sad twist that the people that love them so fiercely are the ones that feel their loss so strongly.
~Gretchen
If we never loved, then maybe we would never feel pain. Love anyway. It's worth it.
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09/22/08 10:06 PM
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Gina - this sounds awful and how terrible for you. But - if they did not heat/burn enough to burn all the fur, there will be more remains. It is probably Fawkes - just a bad cremation. I am so sorry that this happened to you. It really bites.
Molly, son & husband: Chairman Meow Oscar & Thomas Sam, Diego, Delilah, Delia Nevada, Noel Marcel, Dakota, Latte Dexter, Didi, Almond, Joy and Fitz Karl,Lenny,Jynxie,Chamille, Kee & Mr. Beans in my heart forever. Teaching teenagers-part joy, part guerilla warfare!
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Re: Fawkes' Necropsy Report & Histopathy is in...
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09/22/08 11:33 PM
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This is just not fair. You do not deserve any more pain from this whole heart breaking experience. My heart goes out to you.
I am so sorry....
Pat
Pat You have not lived until you have done something for someone who can never repay you.....Unknown Rest in Peace our little sweet friends that have crossed over the "Rainbow Bridge". I miss you Boo-Boo, Lucy, BJ, and Fivel
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Re: Fawkes' Necropsy Report & Histopathy is in...
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09/22/08 11:40 PM
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I am so very sorry Gina my friend . Karin
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Re: Fawkes' Necropsy Report & Histopathy is in...
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09/23/08 10:47 AM
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I don't know why they did what they did - I can't fathom the thought process, or why they wouldn't ask me. But I can't cry anymore, I don't have the strength or the tears left. And the animals that are still with me need their Mommy back whole. I have decided to have Linda make Fawkes a beautiful box to house all of his remains, as well as the engraved pendant I had made for him, and his duckie blankie. Whats done is done, I need to let Fawkes be at peace. Thank you everyone for all your support & hugs.
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09/23/08 11:32 AM
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My vet called me - apparently my mom called her office & complained (since I was so upset). Dr. Kate called me to explain. She said that she was responsible for the fur. She said that she used to ask clients before she did it, but that everyone always said yes, so she stopped asking. And that Fawkes was so small that the amount she took just happened to be most of his back. She apologized and said that she didn't mean to upset me - which I know is true. She agreed that there was too much ash - she said that the crematorium probably didn't clean out the crematory well before they cremated Fawkes and I probably ended up with a couple grams of "other" ash.
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Re: Fawkes' Necropsy Report & Histopathy is in...
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09/23/08 11:42 AM
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Gina, Fawkes lives in your heart. His soul is entwined with yours and that can never be seperated. You both deserve some peace. I am sorry you have been through so much.
Timmy, Gidget(RIP), Bandit, Petey(RIP), Phoebe, Jake (RIP) Piper(RIP), Pru(RIP), Paige, Cole, Molly(RIP), Oliver, Wyatt, Roo(RIP), Romeo, Pennie, Mandy(RIP), Madison, Garth, Kikipoo, Stasia, Bella, Petunia(RIP), Helen, Sydney, Kizzy and Sweet Pea's mom, Mary
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09/23/08 04:32 PM
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AWwwww Gina I am so so so sorry you loved Fawkes and he knew that.
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09/23/08 08:06 PM
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Aw, Gina, I'm so incredibly sorry that your ordeal has just continued to get worse Please know that you didn't starve Fawkes - his horrible cancer did that to him and he was fighting to live in spite of it because of his deep love for you You loved him with your entire self and no more can be asked of a glider angel
Suz Enyedy Carina & Coobah Allira & Gizmo Picasso, Trinity Joy & Luna DaisyMae; Darwin; Mareki; Mambo; Pika; Cricky; Reggie & Bobo, Pepe & Bittah Suz' Sugar Gliders
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09/24/08 08:03 PM
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Gina, I am so sorry for all that has continued to happen At least you have all your answers now. May your heart heal quickly and may you remember only the love.
Forever owned in my heart by my "Eight is Enough" colony: • 2002: Keiko (F) + 2003: Hiroshi (M) = 2004: joey Tomoki (M) • 2009: Sammy (F), Charlie (F), Murray (M), Herbie (M) • 2010: BJ (M)
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09/29/08 07:40 AM
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