This might be a kind of personal question but what kind of bras do you use to bond with/carry around your sg? I feel like sports bras would smush them and a normal bra (like with underwire) would not give them enough room to be comfortable either. Everyone keeps talking about putting them in their bras and carrying them around for the day but my sg likes to move around a little while he is sleeping so how does this work. Thanks and I hope I didnt offend anyone, Im just confused
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#81542 02/03/0603:32 PM02/03/0603:32 PM
I use either sports bras or tank tops with the built in shelf bra. I'm rather big chested but the gliders always manage to find room. Haven't had one get squished yet.
I at one time had a colony of 6 gliders. No matter how many pouches or what sizes I would put in their cage, they would always go in the smallest one and just pile up on each other. Once I found them all crammed into one medium size coconut! Not sure how they all fit.
I think they find comfort in small spaces when they are sleeping. I believe it makes them feel more secure. Because of this, I haven't had any trouble with gliders in my bra. (you can usually find atleast one, sometimes two in there!)
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#81543 02/03/0603:41 PM02/03/0603:41 PM
I have a color collection of those summer tank top type shirts that have the built in bra. Most have a little pocket area where my guys can curl up <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/sleep.gif" alt="" /> while we're out and about. No one ever knows they're there <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> This time of year I still wear them but I usually wear another shirt over it. Make sure you try them on first. Some give you more room that others. Good luck. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/thumb.gif" alt="" />
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#81544 02/03/0606:46 PM02/03/0606:46 PM
I to wear the colored tank tops with the shelf bra in it and my glider loves it. It makes me able to spend more time with her and most of the time no one knows I have her on me. My sister will yell at me to stop petting my boobs when we are out or to stop feeding them, I just laugh. Everyone thinks I am crazy but I love it. I remeber going shopping with my mom at a clothing store and I wanted to try on a sweater so I took over the shirt I was wearing over my tank top and glider and put the button up sweater on. I came out of the dressing room to show my mom my outfit and my glider poked her out to say hello, it was pretty funny and me and my mom were laughing so hard. She went right back in my shirt but seeing her was funny. I feel naked now when I dont have her on me, she is my baby and I figure she has the right to go with me everywhere. I cant wait until the summer but I think you can see her through my tank if I just wear that so I dont know what to do in the summer, not that I care if someone sees her, good luck and enjoy
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#81545 02/10/0608:42 PM02/10/0608:42 PM
I wear a camisole with a built-in bralette. Actually, I wear two and stuff all three gliders in between the two layers. I end up with one giant, sagging uniboob, which I have to adjust occasionally. I usually wear a loose shirt or top over the outfit so it doesn't look quite so odd. Here's a pic of Tomoki and Keiko, when I just wore one camisole.
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Mine hasn't done that yet, I am lucky in that she will wait till playtime then she does all her business. If she is startled she might have to go and then she comes out stands on my shoulder and goes, which is kinda gross but very funny when it happens, then she goes right back in my shirt for more sleep.
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#81551 02/11/0609:06 AM02/11/0609:06 AM
It will all depend on whether your glider goes to the bathroom in their pouch or not. Mine rarely, rarely do so I don't have trouble with them going in my shirt. You can always add a few blankies in there with him/her to catch some of their waste <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/evil.gif" alt="" />
For bra training I love the tanks with the built-in support. When wearing other t-shirts, I will sometimes put on a sports bra a size larger than I normally wear. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/thumb.gif" alt="" />
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#81552 02/11/0601:50 PM02/11/0601:50 PM
I look pretty weird right now. ;D I made a ton of bonding blankets last night after making a new toy for Ruby, and I shoved all the blankets in my shirt, so I look like I have a few gliders snuggled up in there. ;D
I wear a "sports bra" but its not what most people think of that way when I put them in there- its a non underwire bra in my size that gives full support but due to the lack of the underwire there is a gap between and under the cups a bit with a WIDE elastic band (these also have 3-5 hooks in my size!) The twin brothers will go in there but they are the only ones who seem to like it.. and sometimes I have a tail hanging out between my boobs..
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#81554 02/12/0607:01 PM02/12/0607:01 PM
In the summer I sometimes wear two sports bras (it's cooler), but I usually have some glider part or parts hanging out the bottom... at least a tail, maybe a leg or rump, too. I think my babies prefer the camisoles better.
I'd wear only one if I didn't have to worry about 12 hands and feet possibly scratching me as they adjust themselves, and then on occasion, that painful love nip. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />
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Oh, thank you for this question--and the answers... brings to mind my question... HOW do you get a suggie to get in there in the first place? I, too, fill up my bra and I can't imagine stuffing her in there (tramatic enough just to get all of ME in there), and I don't like to close my hands around her b/c she could feel threatened by grasping.
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#81556 02/19/0602:56 PM02/19/0602:56 PM
I have to adjust myself to both sides creating a larger gap between. I just scoop up the glider and in they go. Often I have to hold my hand over them to get them to settle down but once comfy, they are content all day long.
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I could have missed the pain But I'd of had to miss the dance
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#81557 02/19/0603:29 PM02/19/0603:29 PM
OMG you guys are just so funny. Well you convined me to try it out and I have to admit it is better than a pouch hanging around my neck.
<img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/offtopic.gif" alt="" /> First my husband wanted to come back as one of my dogs when he dies but NOW he wants to be one of my gliders. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/nixweiss.gif" alt="" />
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#81558 02/19/0604:13 PM02/19/0604:13 PM
lol, if I could possibly be on the floor right now laughing I would be. (but I am at work, so that is a no go) <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/roflmao.gif" alt="" /> This is hilarious. I really want bra babies and I am going to see to they mind it <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Thanks for all the advice.
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#81559 02/19/0605:26 PM02/19/0605:26 PM
I never new what I was missing out on. All the Bra Ladies have been keeping this a secret. When this guy starts to move around "Man-O-Man" <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> .....husband who's he! You got to try it.
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#81560 02/24/0607:25 AM02/24/0607:25 AM
</font><blockquote><font class="small">Quote:</font><hr /> I have to adjust myself to both sides creating a larger gap between. I just scoop up the glider and in they go. Often I have to hold my hand over them to get them to settle down but once comfy, they are content all day long.
<hr /></blockquote><font class="post"> LOL I appreciate that we make certain "adjustments" for our babies!
I so appreciate the visual some of you added, too! Although I am wondering what my hubby will think, I really want to try this too!
Guess I should give this a lot more time--until she is more calm with me since she is so young she just loves to run up and down and all over the place when we are together. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/thanx.gif" alt="" />
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#81561 02/24/0605:21 PM02/24/0605:21 PM
Thanks for the suggestions on the bra. I just purchased 2 little guys, I found that the pouches were to cumbersome and got in the way. Putting the SG's in my bra sure makes life a little easier! Question, what do you suggest for in the summer, when it's HOT and your sweating...will this harm them, and will it be to hot for them? Thank-you <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/thanx.gif" alt="" />
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#81563 03/04/0610:35 AM03/04/0610:35 AM
</font><blockquote><font class="small">Quote:</font><hr /> First my husband wanted to come back as one of my dogs when he dies but NOW he wants to be one of my gliders. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/nixweiss.gif" alt="" />
Can you put gliders that are not fully bonded to you yet in your bra? I try to spend every moment I can with my gliders, but when I do housework the pouch can really get in the way. I am just afraid that they might jump out or something.
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#81565 03/05/0611:53 AM03/05/0611:53 AM
Actually it's a great way to bond. You just need to put them in and wait until they settle down. It may take a little while at first but they will soon go right in and go to sleep. Just don't ever leave the house with them until they are totally bonded and you are confident that they won't leave you. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wave.gif" alt="" />
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#81566 03/06/0612:41 AM03/06/0612:41 AM
one warning... if they are in my bra and I try to eat ANYTHING they wakeup on the spot and come out to investigate... so be careful of eating things that aren't safe to share while carrying them there.
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#81568 03/07/0601:21 PM03/07/0601:21 PM
haha, I just got a cute pic of one of my little babies snuggled up in my bra with me, actually it is a shirt with the built in bra. I promiss it is decent, lol.
hahaha, last night, my boobs barked, lol. I had one of my joeys in there and I was in the living room with a few friends watching a movie and she started barking, lol. Everyone looked at me like I was crazy <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/roflmao.gif" alt="" />
Thanks to all the experienced bra babies in this thread. I tried this last week and I absolutely love it!! I feel much closer to them this way and I can see them all the time. My heart just melts every time I look at them (which is a lot) They get in the cutest positions that I have ever seen. Comments from family and friends have been hilarious. Thanks again for everyone that shared. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/muchlove.gif" alt="" /> I didn't think I could do it.