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Re: What makes it worth it?What reward is there?
[Re: Tagerlilly18]
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07/21/12 12:21 AM
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Joined: Dec 2010
Posts: 579 Artie, WV
Angellica
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Glider Lover
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Artie, WV
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You mean your gliders being bonded to you?
Angellica :DD 9 wonderful suggies Meeka,Ivory Dazzle, Dervish Larten,Athena Domino Hodge, Lyla Min Pin: Rebel Cat: Blazer Pig: Charlotte Webb. <3
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Re: What makes it worth it?What reward is there?
[Re: Tagerlilly18]
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07/21/12 12:32 AM
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Angellica
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I love the fact I can hold and love on my Gliders without them attacking me, lol. It feels good to know they love you too. When I sit and talk to mine they move their head like they disagree or agree, it's so cute :DD
Angellica :DD 9 wonderful suggies Meeka,Ivory Dazzle, Dervish Larten,Athena Domino Hodge, Lyla Min Pin: Rebel Cat: Blazer Pig: Charlotte Webb. <3
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Re: What makes it worth it?What reward is there?
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07/21/12 01:52 AM
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Gizmo121
Glider Lover
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Glider Lover
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Pensacola, fl
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I love the fact I can hold and love on my Gliders without them attacking me, lol. It feels good to know they love you too. When I sit and talk to mine they move their head like they disagree or agree, it's so cute :DD
proud owner of two dogs one cat one bearded dragon gizmo and piper and one beta fish (:
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Re: What makes it worth it?What reward is there?
[Re: Tagerlilly18]
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07/21/12 05:46 AM
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JillMarie
Serious Glideritis
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Serious Glideritis
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New Jersey
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what makes all the hard work worth it all in the end? What reward is there that makes it all worth it? hmmmmmm, first of all for ME, I dont consider it "work" my reward, well, thats a tough one as there are so many. My reward is a small person the size of my hand yet she has chosen to trust me. That feels good I also know that while I have robbed them of a life living free in the tops of trees, I also give them a full life, as best I can anyway. I try to go by the old adage "do unto others..." and I feel this is no different for the furred people God has put into my life. I truly love my gliders as family, to the definition of love: "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails." so this is how I treat them, whether I will get a reward or not, but you do get one, not only in their behavior, but also inside knowing you have done the right thing.
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Re: What makes it worth it?What reward is there?
[Re: Tagerlilly18]
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07/21/12 07:04 AM
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mmatt
Glider Slave
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Glider Slave
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For me, I didn't know what I was getting into. I bought 2 gliders from (PPP) Perfect Pocket Pets and brought them home. Max was a gem, only bit me twice and then became my baby boy...would run around on me and let me love on him. And then there was Ruby...she was a crabby biter that just did not trust me at all. I was an idiot and went way too fast with her and she did not respond well...continued to crab and bite me. I worked with Ruby for a year and that first time she licked my face was all worth the time I had spent. She doesn't do it often but when she snuggles with me I am in heaven. It's not work, it's love and trust.
Mary Mom to Max , Cynder ,Polar ,Toby and my 5 barkers...Cinnamon, Piper, Sandy and Charley
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Re: What makes it worth it?What reward is there?
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07/21/12 04:01 PM
07/21/12 04:01 PM
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Posts: 3,039 Finally in the Mountains!
sitkasmom
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Glider Addict
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Finally in the Mountains!
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I don't describe taking in animals as work. Its adding a member to the family. To me, it is a great honor to have an animal choose to be with you and depend on you.
Learning how each other views things without being able to talk is probably the biggest challenge to overcome. After enough time you learn how to communicate with each other in your own way. They need to learn how to communicate with us as much as we need to learn from them.
The first time my animals seek me out for comfort is the best feeling ever..
"Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy." Two Boys Sitka, Pudge Monkeys: Nanuk, Dayz & Elfie MudBug & Tista Teemo & Rune (Cyndra ) Lils, Razz & Nut
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Re: What makes it worth it?What reward is there?
[Re: Tagerlilly18]
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07/21/12 11:58 PM
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xSwtxSugaX
Glider Addict
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Glider Addict
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Saint Louis MO
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My Glider Button was the hardest of my gliders to bond with. She was scared, timid, crabby and pouch protective. I took my time with her and she started to slowly come around. One night as I was laying in bed watching tv, I heard her bark like I have never heard before. I sat up to see her dangling in the air with each hand stuck on two different pouches. She was twisting and barking and just freaking out! I ran to her cage and freed her! Ever since that night when I open the cage, she jumps right out and onto me, sits on my shoulder and chills. She freaks out when other people reach in her pouch, but if its me... not a peep, just a lot of kisses! Earning a gliders trust is alot of work. Earning anyones trust can be hardwork. You have to prove something to them, that sometimes takes time. In the end, you form a connection, a special bond! Earning there trust, only makes the relationships that much more special!
"The purity of a person's heart can be quickly measured by how they regard animals" *Stitch* *Button* *Charlie* Cats: Rista and Cali ~*Stacie*~
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Re: What makes it worth it?What reward is there?
[Re: Tagerlilly18]
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07/22/12 12:36 AM
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suggiemom1980
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Glideritis Anonymous
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When they can't wait their turn for tent time with you, when they're scared and run to you and down your shirt, when they give you kisses, when they groom you, when a glider who has bitten you ever day for 18 months, suddenly decides to trust you, when they nyitch for you as you walk into the room, when they cling to you in their sleep, when they snuggle in your bra for the first time, when they look at you and you can see the love in your eyes and know, they love you as much as you love them, when you feel lost without your suggies with you when you go somewhere you just can't take them, when you wake up every couple of hours and before gong to the bathroom, you have to check on your babies.....I could go on and on, but I think it would be never ending.
Connie 812-890-9734, 24/7 Emergencies/Joey issues SmallWorldSuggies"The greater the challenge, the sweeter the reward" "Glide free Silly "Ozball" Ozzie. You left us 11/21/12..way too soon. You're forever loved, remembered, missed."
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Re: What makes it worth it?What reward is there?
[Re: Tagerlilly18]
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07/22/12 12:39 AM
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Sherri
Glider Addict
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Glider Addict
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Big Sandy TN
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I know I cannot live my life with out them when I can't sleep with out glider noise.
I have to have glider noise to fall asleep!
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Re: What makes it worth it?What reward is there?
[Re: suggiemom1980]
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07/22/12 01:19 AM
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Tagerlilly18
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wow thank you so much. This is like exactly what i was looking for =)
Proud owner of - Gizmo
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Re: What makes it worth it?What reward is there?
[Re: Tagerlilly18]
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07/22/12 05:30 AM
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myliljadagirl
Glider Guardian
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Glider Guardian
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Martinsburg, WV
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The rewards are endless...and although sometimes at first something appears ” hopeless” it is worth it! I agree with other...it is not ”work” but can it be hard...or exhausting...or painful...OF COURSE. But arnt all relationships? That is what we are trying to build...and we have a bit of a disadvantage we are 50x larger...don't speak their language, and their natural instincts tell them they should be fearful of us. We have to prove to them...we are worthy...NOT the other way around. So once you have done that... It is, when they jump on the side of the cage when you walk into the room...and then follow you to the other side of the cage because you haven't gotten them out fast enough...it is when they want to be with no one but you...it its when they are fast asleep...and you can do anything you want with them and they do not wake up...because you are their safe zone. It is when a glider that lived his life in pure fear...every second...of every day...and resorted to lunging and bitting for the first 8 months you owned him...now wants your company, and is starting to bark for you to come into the room. (yup...talking about Preston) it is when you forget what life was like BG (before Gliders) and giggle because you can't imagine how you lived w/o them. It is when you come home from a hard day at work...and they put their little hands on either side of your chin...and just bathe you with kisses. I honestly could go on...and on...and on! They are worth it...the relationships...are worth it...the un conditional love...is worth it! And anyone that says they are not...are not worthy of them!
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Re: What makes it worth it?What reward is there?
[Re: Tagerlilly18]
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07/22/12 07:31 AM
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Posts: 3,089 Central Connecticut
BCChins
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Glider Addict
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Central Connecticut
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Having a glider go from not trusting anyone as it came to you from a human who never gave it the time/love and care it needs to having that same glider learn though your loving care that you are trustworthy and lick your face because it now knows you are not going to harm them. It may take time and love but it is not work. It will warm your heart and give you the satisfaction of knowing you are accepted and trusted.
Having a glider sleep in your hand holding onto your finger while they sleep and if you try to pull it away the grab tighter really makes it all worth it.
Have a Good Day Brenda & Mr. Magoo
Friendly Reminder please have an e-collar ready before you need it......
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Re: What makes it worth it?What reward is there?
[Re: Tagerlilly18]
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07/22/12 10:38 AM
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etrnalsunshinee
Glider Slave
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Glider Slave
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New Jersey
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When my outgoing glider Micah goes out of her way to give me a kiss when I make kissie noises with my lips
Amy Micah Momo
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Re: What makes it worth it?What reward is there?
[Re: Tagerlilly18]
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07/23/12 01:05 AM
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Tagerlilly18
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Thank you all so much for your responses =) Will every Glider become that trusting and loving of you i know some may take longer than others but in the end when they are really bonded will any glider act like that towards their owner once bonded fully?
Proud owner of - Gizmo
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Re: What makes it worth it?What reward is there?
[Re: Tagerlilly18]
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07/23/12 03:02 AM
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JillMarie
Serious Glideritis
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Serious Glideritis
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Thank you all so much for your responses =) Will every Glider become that trusting and loving of you i know some may take longer than others but in the end when they are really bonded will any glider act like that towards their owner once bonded fully? Just like humans, they will show their love in different ways.
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Re: What makes it worth it?What reward is there?
[Re: Tagerlilly18]
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07/23/12 12:06 PM
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Joined: Sep 2004
Posts: 22,749 80 acres of paradise in KS
Dancing
Glideritis Anonymous
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Glideritis Anonymous
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Gliders, like all animals, recognize another animals mouth. When a glider trusts you enough to give licky kisses on your lower lip or goes nose to nose with you...that is real trust. The relationship with gliders is so often called " bonding/ bonded" but that only comes after trust building. Before a glider can become bonded, they first have to learn that you are worthy of their trust. (and you learn to trust them too) Once that trust is there, it is an every day thing to keep it. Also, once that trust is there, then the bonds can begin to form. Each glider is different and their level of bonding varies. But even if you have 4 different trustful and bonded gliders, your relationship will be different with each one. Each glider has his/her own quirk. His/her own likes/dislikes. But if you look into their eyes and you have an open heart and mind, they can speak to you. They can tell you what they want, what they need, how they feel. Yes, it absolutely is worth it no matter how long it takes.
620-704-9109 Judge not until you have walked in their shoes and lived their lives. What you see online is only part of the story.
I could have missed the pain But I'd of had to miss the dance
The soul would have no rainbow if the eyes had no tears.
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Re: What makes it worth it?What reward is there?
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07/25/12 01:12 AM
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Meg_n_Von
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I wouldn't even know where to start! There are just SO many benefits and rewards - way too many to list... :O)
Megan & LaVaughn Sugar Exotics Kira Sadie - Neal Pip - Violet Logan - Charli - Tyler - Seamus Chloe - Cas Boone RIP David Your life was short lived, but your memory will last forever.
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